Mindset Matters: How the Right Attitude Can Change Everything

Surbhi Mahnot
3 min readApr 28, 2023

Our mindsets are the lenses through which we see the world. They shape our attitudes, beliefs, and behaviors, influencing every decision. From how we approach challenges to how we interact with others, our mindsets play a crucial role in determining our success and happiness in life. By adopting the right mindset, individuals can overcome obstacles, take risks, and achieve their goals. Conversely, a negative or limiting mindset can hold us back, preventing us from reaching our full potential. In short, having the right mindset is critical to making good decisions and leading a fulfilling life.

How to embrace different mindsets?

I am a blogger, and what could be best than detailing my typical day and how I approach it with different mindsets in different situations? A typical day in my life involves:

  • Writing a blog.
  • Reading emails from my readers.
  • Promoting my blogs on social media.
  • Taking up potential sponsor meetings.

How do mindsets help?

Early in the morning, I get up with my coffee cup, sit at my desk, and begin to write. After blankly staring at the screen, I feel stuck and uninspired. This is where a growth mindset comes in handy — I remind myself of the purpose of writing and ensure I can easily overcome this block by persevering through it. A short break to stretch adds freshness, and putting up some good focus music gets me back my determination to finish the article.

After finishing the blog post, the next thing I do is check my emails. I saw a message from a reader unhappy with one of my recent posts. This is where an open mindset comes in handy — instead of getting defensive or dismissive, I approached the situation with curiosity and a willingness to understand the reader’s perspective. I did respond to the email with a thoughtful and empathetic message and used the feedback in my future writing.

Next, I need to promote my latest blog post on social media. This is where a focused mindset comes in handy — Setting specific goals for how many likes and shares I want to achieve helps me create a detailed plan to promote the post throughout the day. Executing each step of the plan with precision helps me achieve my goals by the end of the day! It isn’t easy to do, though :(

Finally, it’s time to attend a virtual meeting with a potential sponsor. This is where a fixed mindset comes in handy — I have done my research and prepared extensively for the discussion and rely on my existing skills and expertise to make a strong impression. This gave me the confidence and professionalism to secure the sponsorship.

At the end of the day, I reflect on the different mindsets that helped me navigate the challenges and opportunities of the day.

Isn’t it amazing to see how we use different mindsets, most of the time, without being aware of them altogether?

By embracing different mindsets, we can navigate challenges with resilience, approach opportunities with curiosity and creativity, and make thoughtful decisions aligned with our goals and values — Surbhi Mahnot.

Here is a short video to learn about eight different mindsets to identify own and others’ behavior. It promotes our growth and gives us an edge in understanding the other person’s attitude and nature, making us excellent and empathetic leaders!

Whether in our personal or professional lives, cultivating the right mindset is an ongoing journey that can lead to greater fulfillment, satisfaction, and meaning in life.

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Surbhi Mahnot

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